SYNASTRY IN ACTION
PART 2
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his desire nature Rory’s 8th House Mars in Sagittarius expresses an enthusiastic
lust. Vigorous and spirited, he wants a woman who will share the great adventure
of life with him. He craves space and freedom in which to explore.
(13) In anger his self-righteousness is
fuelled. Rory’s Ascendant is in the first few
minutes of Taurus. There is a possibility that his Ascendant might fall into the
last degrees of Aries, which would go along with the “Martian” feel of the rest
of his chart. Given the data supplied, Rory is Taurus rising and as such he
doesn’t reveal much of himself in an easy fashion. Highly resistant to
provocation, he seeks an Other who can burrow below the surface of life, and
won’t discard him lightly. Rory’s
elemental balance is predominantly Air, filling in Alice’s need. Both Alice and
Rory possess a Sun that shows great determination toward self-expression before
they met, and nothing has changed since then! He has the Sun angular on the
Descendant, in the fixed sign Scorpio. Some diehard analysis would say Alice's
Sun is "accidentally" dignified (14) in the Fifth House of children and love
affairs, which squares Pluto. And that is how they came
together. Now Mary Alice has come armed with
their cross-accusations. Are they valid criticisms? Their interaspects tell a
story of love and war, with the latter winning out. Rory’s apparent
irresponsibility and constant undermining can be linked to his Saturn square her
Saturn, his Mars conjunct her Saturn, his own Neptune conjunct Mercury, and his
Pluto conjunct her Moon. The interaspects between Rory and
Alice are typical in that there are a variety of both harmonious and unsettling
flows of energies. What is unique to them is the way they each plug into the
other’s aspect patterns. Rory has a Grand Fire trine dominating his chart,
involving his Moon, Mars, and Pluto. Since it is so important in his
natal statement, it is going to dominate in his relationship with Alice. In some
ways it might even be more noticeable to her than to Rory, since Grand trines
are said to be so easy in their movement, that they raise little attention
internally. There are four major interaspects
I would focus on and bring to Alice’s attention: her Mercury/Saturn on Rory’s
Mars, her Moon/Uranus on his Pluto, and her Jupiter and Mars both squaring
Rory’s Pluto. With the square of Rory’s Mars to his own Saturn, these
interaspects potentially bring into play some very difficult planetary
energies. Hard
Saturn/Mars contacts have a reputation: “It is a curious fact that many men who
appear to be normally mild or inoffensive by temperament, or who do not at least
resort to the use of physical or emotional violence to express their anger, can
be aggravated past the point of self-control by a woman whose Saturn falls on
Mars.” (18) But never is it safe to assume;
these days’ women, also, are the perpetrators of violence between partners. It’s
a difficult call. A Sagittarius Mars will exhaust its anger long before the
Taurus Mars has done. Uranus in conjunction with her Moon
will quickly set it off. Here is something of which Alice must be made aware:
her Moon/Uranus does not have to set off her own Mars opposition Jupiter. And
for good measure she does not have to speed over to her Mercury, another point
of potential trouble. Saturn square Saturn between
charts is a failure to understand each other’s idea of responsibility. Placed in
the 5th House, as her natal Saturn is too, indicates that Rory’s Parent takes
his children as seriously as she does. However, while Alice enjoys a 5th House
Sagittarius Saturn---“C’mon kids! Learning is FUN!”---conjuncting Mercury and
trining the Moon/child, Rory’s Virgo Saturn puts the brakes on his urge to serve
his children. Alice
has retrograde Mercury in detriment. The retrograde influence mutes the
communicating confidence, introverting one’s abilities to clearly express
themselves. (22) Sagittarius heats up Mercury and can
encourage foot-in-mouth disease; conjunct to the ever vigilant
keeper-of-standards, Saturn, Alice has most likely experienced more than a few
episodes where she was unable to say what she meant. With Rory’s Mars
conjuncting and detail-oriented Saturn squaring her Mercury, one can see a major
problem between them is his irritation and criticism of her words, and her
tendency to say the wrong thing---or reluctance to say anything. The sextiles they have between his
Libra and her Sagittarius planets is good news for both of them. His Libra
Mercury and Venus settle into her 3rd House of general communicating. Her
Sagittarius Mercury and Venus settle in his 8th House of difficult subjects.
Since the energies of his Saturn and
her Saturn are originating from their 5th Houses, this is a critical area in
terms of Alice’s original request for a reading. His Virgo Saturn squares into
her 5th House; she might feel oppressed by his exacting standards regarding the
children. When his Saturn squares her Mercury, her 2nd House of worth and value
is activated. She might actually feel uncomfortable when he does “parent.” This
would set off her own self-justifying Saturn. In Sagittarius it “knows” a thing
or two about education! To put it simply, they both have
different parenting styles. Is Alice able to accept that Rory is just as serious
as she is regarding the children, yet has his own way of performing his duties?
Regarding their difference of opinion over scheduling, could Rory perhaps follow
his children’s schedule? The problems between them can be
summed up as a dual power struggle. Alice is afraid of losing her children. Her
fear of her children not loving her is one reason why she objects to Rory. For
him, his natural instinct against being dominated has made him resent
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As part of the Libran 6th House group with Mercury and Neptune, Venus is
also drawn into the Fiery Grand trine. Here is one of those paradoxes in the
human psyche, that is, on the surface and in the everyday world (6th House) Rory
prefers a partner who displays a good measure of diplomacy in her style.
Yet, through the opposition of Neptune to Moon in the
12th House, his inner feminine also includes attributes more suited to a woman
who pioneers the most dangerous routes up Himalayan Mountains. If he is ever at
odds over his partner’s qualities, then this contributes to his
confusion.
As
part of the Grand trine with the 6th House Neptune, Rory idealizes freedom in
his mundane life activities. His Mars rules his Moon and co-rules his Sun and
Descendant; in the 8th House of shared resources Mars can instigate fights over
money with his partner.
In a sense
these two Suns are already making a similar statement about power and drive. Her
Sun has wrestled with the “heavy” energies of Pluto; his Sun will not compromise
itself. His Saturn falls into her 2nd House of resources, clicking nicely with
the expectations of her Capricorn Descendant and 10th House Taurus Mars.
Her Fiery Moon is in his 4th House
and conjunct his Pluto---through his unconscious plutonian filter he sees her
Moon and equates it with his Mother image, and placed as it is in his 4th House
makes her a suitable mother in his home. Her 10th House Mars falls in his 1st
House making him a suitable personification of her ambitions. His intercepted
Mars in the 8th and conjunct Chiron falls into her 5th House and conjuncts her
Sagittarius planets---and is “found” there.
He is
potent; he is virile and best of all he is desired as generator of pleasure to
her (until the time he feels her Saturn on his Mars). Her Neptune is unaspected
but conjuncts his Sun in his 7th House in Scorpio, and so he thinks he can see a
darkly intense vision of femininity in her.
His Pluto falls into her 1st
House, into the intercept, and so bolsters her personal power. His intercepted
signs fall into houses of her chart where those signs take up the whole
house---where they are hard to access for him, with her they are not just
accessible but super-important!
His Mercury in Libra is accidentally dignified
and falls on her North Node in the 3rd House, signifying that his communications
skills would be of great benefit for her. Both of their Jupiters fall in each
other’s 7th Houses making each other the beneficiary of their generosity.
The uncaring feeling she gets from him might be sourced through his
10th House Jupiter in Aquarius opposing her Moon, and his Pluto conjunct her
Moon. On his part, Rory names Alice as inflexible.
This is not unjustified, with her
angular fixed Grand square and its “never say die” attitude dominating her
chart. He also says she disallows his free spiritedness and this can be her
Saturn conjuncting his Mars in Sagittarius. But it could also be a complex
interaction of her Moon conjunct Uranus, projected onto his own Moon square
Uranus, with his 3rd House Uranus falling smack into the unconsciousness of her
12th House.
It might even be his Saturn squaring into
her Sagittarius stellium. Here is a possible statement about her own repressed
needs to act as she wants and not as she is expected. Her Moon trines his Moon
and in fire they can jump back and forth quickly, one to the other. Who is the
one who really wants to be the free spirit? An interesting question...
In synastry it is not unusual to have aspects
flying all over the place and between the two charts. In order to peer through
this seeming chaos, it is advisable to isolate the main aspects pertaining to
the client’s needs.
Neptune forms a kite
off this pattern and this is said to allow the energy a way out.
(15) His Venus and Mercury are brought into the pattern by
way of conjunction with Neptune.
His Uranus squares the Moon,
Saturn squares Mars, and Jupiter makes a large, separating opposition to Pluto.
His Sun is further removed in its involvement, coming through a trine to the
Uranus.
There is no planet not touched by this pattern. This makes for
an individual who is capable of a variety of responses to the situations
triggering the Grand trine. Mars can express the energy out through the square
to Saturn or the sextiles to Venus/Mercury or Jupiter. Pluto can express through
a similar sextile or opposition to Jupiter.
The Moon could express through its square to Uranus or
opposition to Neptune. The Sun can come through Uranus squared by the Moon.
(16) So internally, Rory has several choices in how
to act. This is important for Alice to know. She can be made aware that she has
some influence in what way this set-up manifests externally.
Fire Grand trines move quickly from one
planet to the other, with great warmth in their output. It is characteristic of
this pattern to push the native forward, call attention to themselves (calling
their own attention too!), and act impulsively without thought for any other.
They generally infuse one with a sense of inner confidence. (17) His Moon in 12th is naturally reticent, but
I believe that the Aries vitality and trine to Mars pulls it into interactions
frequently.
Alice, too, is pulled into this pattern through her
Moon/Uranus conjunction with Rory’s Pluto, and her Saturn/Mercury conjunction
with his Mars. His Pluto on her Moon would trigger her insecurities. Once fear
begins to vibrate her Moon, this in turn would activate her own dominant aspect
pattern, the fixed Grand square with Moon square Jupiter opposing Mars, and Moon
opposing Chiron.
This is quite a telling statement of childhood frustrations and the pain
of isolation in her relationships (Chiron in Aquarius in the 7th). When Alice’s
Mars is set off, it squares Rory’s Pluto, which in turn escalates the pressure
of her Grand square, and sends aggressive aspirations around his Grand trine. In
this way Alice and Rory set off their personal self-anger mechanisms, and tied
in with each other it is easy to see how they have come to this present
scenario.
The issue of domestic violence raises its ugly head and must be approached
delicately. In the case of the affirmative, my recommendation to Alice is for
the use of a mediator in her communications with Rory. If they cannot interact
without the possibility of someone getting hurt, an intervention is imperative.
A Social Worker is recommended; they are professionals who specialize in
difficult domestic situations.
In this
case I would leave it to Alice as to how far she would like to go in discussing
this particular undercurrent. Nevertheless, the involvement of Rory’s Saturn and
Pluto, as well as his aggressive Aries Moon and Scorpio Sun lead me to think
that (at the very least) Alice’s Moon (conjuncting his Pluto) can certainly
sense the formidable forces at work within him whenever they have to
interact.
It is also a
possibility that for Alice, sensing such power as Rory contains is as real as
experiencing it, given the “open” nature of her Cancer Ascendant. A particular
fear that might be triggered is that Rory could steal her children from her
(stellium in the 5th House ruled by 4th House Jupiter in Scorpio, Sun square
Pluto).
With so many planets placed in the House of children, for
Alice they could symbolize her whole life. Her self-worth, her reason for being,
her social status (through Venus ruling the 10th House Mars and MC) might be
entirely wrapped up in her children.
Her Venus
in the 5th is where love is expressed and found---might she also be afraid that
the children will not love her if Rory exerts his powerful influence on them?
Her own Pluto makes few in-sign ptolemaic aspects, but it does square her Sun.
As is so often the case, this aspect shows its importance in her life with her
marriage to a man with a Scorpio Sun. Her unaspected Neptune, (19) deprived of any self-expression, conjuncts Rory’s Sun.
Rory could appear to Alice fully robed in the personification of The
Beast.
Getting angry will activate her Mars square his Pluto.
This is not a man who will bow easily to any attempt at domination. Her energies
are wasted in that direction and she could precipitate a volatile situation. And
clinging to her family (Jupiter expanding the Scorpio possessiveness, in her 4th
House of family, squaring Rory’s Pluto) whilst unconsciously trying to drive him
off will not smooth the way either! In other words, when full of emotion, hurt,
scared, feeling threatened with Rory, she would do well to appeal to his own
inner child.
They do enjoy a
harmonious trine between their child Moons. And his inner child respects her
adult Sun, as well as her Venus, both in her 5th House. Perhaps she could
spontaneously offer him something she has created herself (satisfying the
creative spirit of the 5th House Sun).
Any way that she could bring out his playful side with her own would
benefit them both tremendously, and bares directly on the matter at hand: “This
(Moon trine Moon) is especially positive for bringing up children because as
parents your united front on basic values gives your offspring a balanced and
confident feeling about themselves and life.” (20) This is a much less stressful way to
achieve their children’s happiness than exchanging barbs via the square between
their respective Saturns.
Saturn here, squared
by Mars, suggests one who is somehow not happy with the idea of being a parent.
It may have all begun for Rory with insecurity about how one “does” romance
versus feeding a very hungry desire for sex. Sex can lead to children and with a
troubled Saturn in the 5th House “they also fear that what they give birth to
will be unacceptable.” (21)
With Saturn co-ruling his
10th House of the outer world, Rory may feel some sort of secret shame about his
“creations.” He could possibly go on to question his potency (Jupiter in the
10th ruling an intercepted Mars conjunct Chiron in the 8th House) and this can
plunge him back into the discordance between his Mars and Saturn. Alice, as
co-parent, can be made aware that while he may struggle with his role as a
parent, this does not necessarily have anything to do with her.
Under
the circumstances it is most understandable that he would rather choose to
indulge the enjoyable aspects of his chart. The Fire Grand trine with the kite
to Neptune in Libra in the 6th House of everyday life is more indicative of one
who would prefer to be off making wonderful, glamorous conquests. When his
Saturn is activated around Alice, such as when issues of visitations come up, it
is back to reality. Alice has problems with his sober side because the square to
Mars also takes in her Saturn/Mercury.
There is a good chance that Alice is insecure about her
intellect. In their war over who is the best parent, Rory might insult Alice who
would feel “stupid.” In talking to him she might feel as if she is addressing a
know-it-all brick wall. Mercury is her ruler of the 2nd House of self-worth and
value, and rules the Pluto residing there. Activated, her Pluto squares her
Sun.
The ego is bruised because her
Sagittarius 5th House Sun is gloriously identified with intellect and knowledge.
Alice might experience in this scenario the familiar (to her) oppression of her
selfhood.
All of this can start with one
nitpicky comment from Rory, or a self-righteous statement from Alice. This is
not to say that Alice cannot talk to Rory without acrimony. They have Mercury in
harmonious sextile aspect. The prospect of a meeting of the minds is definitely
there!
She could try different ways of communicating with him, like
email, or text messaging. These would appeal to his 3rd House Uranus, with the
added benefit that both mediums encourage short messages. The value in this is
that Alice is forced to stick to the point---something Saturn in Virgo would
appreciate.
In their communications
Alice must be very aware of not allowing any anger on his part to set her off
(his Mars conjunct her Mercury). A Mercury in Sagittarius can be very vocal when
wanting to express its point of view!
Deep breathing and counting to 10 are other suggestions.
Here is a way for her to discuss those areas of life he might rather
avoid (Mercury in Libra conjunct Neptune). In positive Sagittarius manner, she
can use her Mercury and Venus to uplift and inspire Rory. His Libran Mercury
would be happiest maintaining the peace.
This is something I would encourage Alice to
ponder: is she willing to positively focus her thoughts on engaging Rory in
genial “small-talk?” Not everything they talk about has to be of
earth-shattering importance, and if she can get used to the idea of banal, yet
pleasant, everyday-type conversation with Rory, she might find him much more
amenable to other topics she might want to raise.
This way he is not beholden to her timing, and
his 5th House Saturn can at least be satisfied it is correctly doing its duty
(without any undertones of obligation toward Alice). With Venus in the 5th Alice
could possibly overvalue her children’s potential for creativity, and overextend
them through after-school activities.
If Rory has questioned schedules in general,
has he specifically referred to something like this? It is something to ask if
only to bring to Alice’s attention that Rory may be concerned for the children’s
welfare, and not necessarily trying to undermine her authority (although it
would feel that way to her Saturn).
She has been the one to come for help because Rory is
not the sort of person to admit any weakness. If they ultimately cannot talk to
each other in any civil way, it is better that they resort to a third person to
mediate. Chances are that this can help them to work out things the way they
both want.
It is possible that Alice could do positive
Saturn and support his natural Mars ways in this sign. Saturn, particularly in
Sagittarius, can be a good teacher. In showing respect to Rory for his ideals,
perhaps he will begin to trust the steadying influence Alice can provide. This
will take some consciousness on her part. She could consider the fact that his
passion for her helped to beget the children she holds so dear now (his Mars
conjunct her Venus, trine her Moon, in her 5th House).
Her Saturn/Mercury can connect
positively to his 10th House Jupiter in Aquarius. Here, in his role as a
larger-than-life character, Rory can remind Alice of how he once may have
embodied her inner image of inspiration and meaning (Rory’s Jupiter opposite
Alice’s Moon, his Jupiter in her 7th House, her stellium in
Sagittarius).
His Aries Moon shows that he likes a woman who is
outspoken and honestly upfront. Alice is certainly capable of this, yet because
of their unique interactions she must speak to him with reservation and control,
in the interests of the children. For their sake, the efforts necessary for an
awakening in both Alice and Rory are very worthy.
Copyright: Margaret Penner
Choinski
Earth Elephant
Astrology
ENDNOTES
1 Shakespeare, William, from The Taming of the Shrew
2 Hand, Robert, in his Foreward to John Townley’s
Composite Charts, Llewellyn Publications, 2000, p.xvi
3 Forrest, Steven, The Inner Sky, ACS Publications, 1988,
p.217 Together the Sun, Moon, and Ascendant form what Forrest calls the “Primal
Triad.”
4 Forrest, p.217
5 Sasportas, Howard, The Twelve Houses, Thorsons, 1985,
p.75
6 Forrest, Steven and Jodie,
Skymates, ACS Publications, 1989. p.46-47
7 Sasportas, p.71
8 Davison, Ronald, Synastry: Understanding
Human Relations Through Astrology, Aurora Press, 1983, p.12
9 Davison, p.31-32
10 Sasportas, p.63
11 Fairfield, Gail, Choice Centered Astrology, Ramp
Creek, 1990, p.57
12 Fairfield,
p.65
13 Birkbeck, Lyn, DIY Relationship
Astrology, Element, 1999, p.208
14
“Accidental” dignity once said to be the placement of a planet in the
house which aligns with the sign it rules, according to the natural house
system, i.e. Aries = Mars = First House; this definition of accidental
dignity is no longer accepted
15 Tierney,
Bil, Dynamics of Aspect Analysis,
16 Venus,
Mercury, and Jupiter are numerically in orb, yet out of sign. This is called a
dissociate aspect. Tierney states: “…typically, one tends to become confused as
to how best to synthesize the different behavioural traits of the signs,
resulting in mild frustration.” p.58
17
Tierney, p.71-72
18 Greene, Liz, Saturn: A
New Look at an Old Devil, Arkana, 1976, p.157
19 Tierney, p.183-184
20 Birkbeck, p.345
21 Sasportas, p.252
22 Tierney, p.198
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